Finally live your life,
instead of just getting through it.
HOLISTIC ONLINE THERAPY · CALIFORNIA & WASHINGTON
Holistic online therapy for AAPI, mixed-race, and multicultural adults who are ready to stop just getting through it, and actually feel good.
You've done everything right. So why does it still feel like this?
Caitlin Blair, LCSW, LICSW
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, CA #128351
Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker, WA #LW70057720
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There's the life people see, and then there's how you actually feel living it.
What if the goal wasn’t to hold it all together all the time?
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❋ You're functioning, succeeding even, and still somehow running on empty.
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❋ Cultural expectations have shaped your anxiety in ways that generic advice doesn’t touch.
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❋ You’re everyone else’s support system and you can’t remember the last time anyone genuinely asked how you were doing.
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❋ You were meant for more than this but you’ve tried pushing through alone, and it isn’t working.
“Caitlin has a very warm and welcoming approach which instantly makes one feel at ease when opening up about past trauma or struggles. She does a fabulous job of making individuals in her presence be seen, heard, and validated which so many of us strive for in our current lives. ”
“Caitlin is reliable, thoughtful and organized. Most of all, I appreciate Caitlin's warm and genuine presence each time I connect with her. She's super approachable and down to earth, and I'm grateful to know her!”
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MEET YOUR GUIDE
I'm Caitlin Blair,
LCSW, LICSW
Licensed in California & Washington · Asian American Therapist
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, CA #128351
Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker, WA #LW70057720
I became a therapist because I believe everyone deserves a space where they can bring all of themselves—where your cultural background, family story, and personal history are a major part of our work together. That's what the tiny cottage is: a warm place where all parts of you are already welcome.
With EMDR, somatic therapy, IFS-informed work, and Brainspotting, we work with your whole story — not just the symptoms.
THIS IS WHAT CAN CHANGE
Become who you were always meant to be.
WHAT HAPPENS IF NOTHING CHANGES
✖ Running on empty, giving everything to everyone else
✖ Overwhelmed by stress you can't get under control
✖ Going through the motions, disconnected from what you want
✖ Anxious and unsure how to get back to yourself
WHAT BECOMES POSSIBLE
✔ Caring for others with warmth, because you have energy for yourself too
✔ Calm and grounded, with real tools for the hard moments
✔ Clear on your values and where you're headed
✔ Comfortable in your own skin
HOW IT WORKS
Three simple steps
to becoming the version of yourself
you were always meant to be.
Telehealth · California & Washington · Accepting new clients now
SPECIALITIES
Find the support that’s right for you.
Burnout and anxiety rarely show up alone. They're tangled with identity, relationships, and the weight of other people's expectations.
Each specialty below addresses a different part of that picture.
Not sure where to start? The free consult is exactly for that.
INDIVIDUAL
Anxiety & Chronic Stress
You look fine on the outside. Inside, the anxiety is relentless. The constant worry and pressure that never fully turn off.
✖ Stuck in a cycle of stress you can't get on top of
✔ Working toward calm and the tools to handle hard moments when they come
INDIVIDUAL
Burnout & Caregiver Fatigue
You've been holding it all together at work, at home, for everyone around you. You're more than just tired, you're nearly depleted.
✖ Running on empty, nothing left for yourself
✔ Exploring what it looks like to care for others without losing yourself in the process
INDIVIDUAL
AAPI & Multicultural Identity
Navigating cultural expectations, family roles, and racial identity is its own kind of weight. Work with someone who gets the full picture.
✖ Caught between worlds, unsure where you belong
✔ Building a sense of self that holds across all parts of your life
COUPLES
Interracial & Cross-Cultural Couples
When you and your partner come from different cultural backgrounds, some conflicts run deeper than communication. Build real tools that account for your full story together.
✖ Stuck in the same misunderstandings, disconnected
✔ Working toward deeper understanding and fewer unspoken assumptions
GROUP · COMMUNITY
AAPI Caregiver Support Group
A space to process the unique stress of caregiving within AAPI families with others who understand the cultural expectations, guilt, and love that come with it. You don't have to carry this alone.
✔ Community with people who get it
✔ Less isolation, more shared understanding
✔ Tools for sustainable caregiving
FREE RESOURCE
Not ready for sessions just yet? Get the free burnout relief guide first.
“Is this burnout?” A self assessment, 7 holistic practices to help address burnout, & bonus journal prompts.
READY WHEN YOU ARE
You've been just getting through it for long enough. You deserve to actually feel good, and that starts with one conversation.
A free 15-minute call is where it starts. No paperwork, no pressure. You don't even need to know what you need yet, you just have to decide there's another way.
Telehealth · Accepting new clients in California & Washington · caitlin@tinycottagetherapy.com